The last month or so has been a surprising mix of the terrible, the hard, the wonderful, and the relaxed. I finally left my job at the NIH... I have had "going away parties" on numerous occasions for each extended trip I took over to Oxford, but this was the big last goodbye. Dr. Bright packed up all her earthly belongings, put them in the brave little minivan, and headed precariously home to New York. In the end, I think that I will sincerely miss my lab at the NIH; despite some tough times, I came to really appreciate the people and the place more than I expected, and I left Bethesda on very good terms, with an NIH sweatshirt, a card signed by all my colleagues, and a rather large gift certificate for John Lewis (a UK department store).
At the same time, my family was coping with a tragedy. My grandmother suffered a hemorrhagic stroke, spent a few challenging days in the hospital, and was eventually brought home to Lake George for home hospice care. About the time I arrived in Indiana, she was coming home. My mom was amazing. My whole family was amazing. Somehow, a tragic event was almost beautiful, and my grandma passed away in her own bedroom with all her children holding hands around her.
After the funeral, I drove the little mini cooper up to my brother's house in Ann Arbor, where I proceeded to do very little. I initially intended to stay for the weekend. Then I stayed for a week. Then 10 days. Whoops! But I had much needed downtime, and puttered about the garden between walks into town for posh coffee. Pansies, espresso drinks, cooking with Andy... no surprise I stayed so long :)
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| Andy completely remade the front porch of his house, and I was fortunate enough to watch it all come together. With no help from me (but at least without my clumsiness ruining too much), Andy put up the finished railings. As a finishing touch, he created a trellis for the north side, in the same style as the trellis on our grandparent's porch that we found in old black and white photographs. |
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| The handyman himself, relaxing on the porch swing he refurbished. |
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| I had been worried about the pansies, since when I left they looked like this. |
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| Andy recently emailed me this updated photo of our pansy project... "resplendent" indeed :) |
When I finally started to be bored with my life of leisure, I took the little mini home to Long Island. For kicks, I opted to drive via Canada instead of Ohio (although they are equally boring stretches of North America), and spend the night in the very, erm, bizarre town of Niagara Falls. Although the falls are rather impressive, the budget hotel I picked out of my data-roaming-charged-smartphone was in the middle of an off-season theme-park/freak-show/fun-house/wax-museum neighborhood that was rather Norman-Bates creepy without the throngs of whiny eight-year-olds that I assume flood the streets in the summertime. But, I survived the night, passed through customs, and took fun two-lane twisty roads most of the way back to the NY metropolitan area. Like the commercial says, "Mini cooper... handles like a go-cart."
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| The falls. At night, they are lit up by big spotlights that change colors. |
After getting some wanderlust out of my system, I settled into a cozy routine back at Casa Gallogly-Bright. The newest addition to the family fleet, two banana yellow pedal kayaks, were a highly enjoyable addition to the weeks at home. Good work mom and dad! After a little foray up to Montreal (for another post), I hunkered down to pack up my entire life into boxes to be shipped in a container ship over to Cardiff. I will only post about that process when/if I get all those boxes delivered in 4-6 weeks time! And, simply because it wouldn't be a blog entry without entirely random pictures, here is one from a trip to the North Fork with Mom and Barbara to see alpacas. Yes, alpacas.
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| Yup, Mom and Barbara and alpacas. They were both doing their best to convince the other to buy them. "Never need to cut grass again!" |
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| Equally random pic of my dad, preemptively celebrating our stuffed bell peppers :) |